Hello TJ, Sorry for the much-delayed response to your last comment. I hope the lapse of time doesn't break up the continuity too badly.
First of all, I believe you’ve slightly mis-characterized my position. My claim is not that the Father and the Son occupy precisely the same position of authority. All trinitarians acknowledge that the Father commands, and the Son willingly submits to those commands. My understanding is that this difference in position between the two of them, has no bearing on the honor to which either is worthy from man. By way of analogy, wives are under the authority of husbands, but are not, therefore, as mothers, entitled to less honor from children than are fathers. Christ's worthiness of worship is in no way limited by his submission to the Father's will.
I believe, furthermore that you’ve missed the force of some of the evidence. It is true that in Rev. 4:1-5:11, the Father and the Son are being rendered "similar" acts. I would point out, first of all, that with respect to some of these words and acts, the Son seems to be receiving (only, of course, in this particular instance) even more glory than the Father. But more importantly, in 5:13-14, both the Father and the Son are rendered the exact same words and the exact same acts at the exact same time. I do not see how, in that particular instance, any distinction can be made between what is done to the Father and what is done to the Son. They are merely compound direct objects of all that is said and done there.
I do acknowledge that there are some distinctions between the earlier instances in which the Father and Son are being honored separately, but I believe you've placed upon them undue significance.
First, you've pointed out that the worshipers refer to the Father as God, but the Son only as the Lamb, and that throughout the book of Revelation, Christ refers to the Father as "his God". You believe this shows that Christ is not being worshiped as God. Notice, however, that in 4:8 the worshipers also refer to the Father as Lord but do not so refer to the Son. Would you conclude that Christ is not, therefore, being honored as Lord? We know from scripture that not only is he Lord, but he is the one Lord (I Cor 8:6). Does God have a God?, you ask. I suppose I have no more problem with the one true God having a God than I have with the one true Lord having a Lord (Psalm 110).
Second, you point out that in these passages, the Father’s praise is predicated on creation, but Christ’s on redemption, and claim that, therefore, the Son's honor is limited. If this kind of distinction, however, is probative of a less than absolute worship, then we must conclude that the Father's honor is likewise limited. After all, he is not, in these passages, credited with redemption. In short, I don't see how the different grounds for praising the Son and praising the Father mean that one is being worshiped and the other is not. Differences do not equal limits.
You argue that Christ's glory is lesser, because it is said to have been given to him by the Father. You compare this to the honor that was bestowed upon the ancient kings of Israel. There is of course, one important distinction here. The glory that Christ received from the Father was his originally-- the Father was not "giving" Christ this glory, but restoring to him the glory he shared with the Father before world began (John 17:5), glory that the Son had voluntarily set aside (Phil. 2).
In general, I have to say that your general definition of worship strikes me as less than adequate. You seem to define it as "that honor which is only appropriately given to God the Father" which definition, of course, begs the very question. Is worship really defined only by the person honored or the deeds which are praised, or are there certain words and acts that are inherently worshipful? If I were to bow down before my neighbor, make a burnt offering to him and praise his name, would it be any less worship if I did so because he had made an excellent cheesecake?
All the host of heaven fall down before the Lamb, they offer him incense (prayers) and sing to him with harps; they declare his worth and attribute to him honor, power, and glory. All creation then declares with one breath, that both he and the Father are worthy of everlasting blessing, honor, glory, and dominion. Any definition of worship that is not satisfied by these elements seems to me to be utterly meaningless.